Neighbours 54

Last Saturday I attended a wedding.I attend weddings,yes..secondly I have nothing to explain to anyone why,sounds harsh...hehe.We'll am over 18.Lets forget that for now.The guys who were wedding are both my friends,what about that,superb.We've known each other for five years,a whole presidential term.There are those weddings you enjoy because you know those guys from back in the days,where Dolphins cafe was the 'Villa Rosa kempiski'.This was a long distance relationship..from Nyayo 1 basically to the 'slopes' of old Menengai hostels..hehe,my former comrades get this distance.This means my guy L.L did not just look at the nearby Aberdares slopes,but looked much yonder.This was also a wedding where you meet your campus friends.Am comfortable,I don't have to spell my name to strangers or start calling myself 'Vick'.I was told Vickie is a girl's name,that's what i have been called a third of my entire life,am a villager..every siblings kid bro.That was a C.M wedding,am a c.mer by association..this is the most united arm of the K.U Christian union.Trust me on this.Am a tech so I aint biased,but am a c.mer too.I had a chance of meeting guys from Baragoi,Kenya is rich with culture.So my good friend partially comes from Baragoi,I officially declare I have friends from all over the world(read:country).I have friends from Karatina too,just mention it and a I have a friend there..even diaspora;Rongai republic hehe.Congrats to Tito and Harriet...
On matters friends still,there is some kind of friendship called 'F.W.B'-Friends with benefits.There are those friends we were so close in campus because of updating them on teaching timetable changes,exam timetable,course outlines,dates for cats etc.Once those things come to an end,the friendship follows suit.I have one dude the last time we communicated is April 2013 yeah,he was asking of the exam timetable.I try to call him but unfortunately he will never pick my call.Lets see maybe we meet at Masters or Phd..heheThere are many whatsapp groups,at times we avoid to 'left' not because we love them but because our friends will say things like..''Wawaya siku izi anaringa oooh,tangu aanze sijui modelling..lol''.We just keep silent in those groups.I hate those forwarded texts.I think not everybody does that.However relevant it seems,if you didn't personally type that thing,trust me I will not read it.Some of the forwards are erroneous or rather carry false information partly.Whatsapp has no curriculum,so we make rules.Let me brag abit,I am an admin of a whatsapp group called 'Ex Nyandarua wazito'..this group consists of my former room mates and our visiting friends,we have one thing in common,We lived/stayed/used to hang out in that Nyandarua 5 hostel.We share things we have in common,nobody brings much of Man u, Arsenal fights,that does not mean there are no soccers lovers there.In short keep the main thing the main thing in that group.There are light moments too.
Finally we all have buddies we can call any time of day or night,without explaining why we called.Friends who have been there in all seasons.Then there are those calls when you see,you prepare yourself to solve a problem.In business we call them transactions.In other disciplines they are called emergencies.But am glad there are those who call to ask me where 'Kipande house' is located or better still Herufi house.In short let's understand our friends the way they are.We are all trying to crack it in this big city.Don't ignore your friends please,even if they want to sell insurance to you..treat them well,we studied different courses but at times life channels you elsewhere.Then some free answers,if someone asks you where you work,and you are not sure what to say because the contract ended,just say you do 'freelance'...hehe..
Ati valentine,we love those holidays mtu haendi job..all other holidays ni drill..enjoy your weekend

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